Comments from Modern Intimacy Coaching Clients

John B

“Dear Michael,

Thank you so much for the inspiring sessions!

I appreciate your excellent listening skills. You are very thoughtful, and the guidance you offer is profound.

I am grateful to be working with you!”

Mary N

“Thanks to you and David Deida for being out there in this world that so needs the work you are doing!! I have turned everyone I know on to it, and without exception, everyone has said, in one form or another "this changed my life"...and the beauty is that its not anything we don't all already know on some level - its just so beautifully and accessibly said. Yeah - so - again, thank you both

Thank you again, and for your perseverance with responding to my emails and also your sensitivity in hearing my sense of urgency.

I love that there is homework! And thank you for being so clear and responsive.

Thank you for your response - and the reminder to BREATHE! (Its one I often give to others, but rarely receive - GREAT to receive it).

Just want thanks for the kind & supportive words you share. It’s deeply appreciated.

It’s tough, this work, maybe even tougher for my partner. But for me, its is SO EXACTLY A PART OF WHAT I NEED US TO DO TO STAY IN THE MARRIAGE. I feel that getting to respond to homework is like purging the layers of crap that have been festering in us for years. This exercise gives me not only licence to speak it all - but a forum that is safe for both myself and my partner… the sessions with you give us the other set of ears that keep us both in awareness of ourselves.”

Dan L

“This is hard and is the most difficult work I have done, but I can't go back now.

Thanks for your support, just the conversation with you inspired me in many ways and I am seeing transformation.

I have been practicing all that we talked about on the phone last month and listening every day to the lectures I got from you. It is working and while not a straight line path I am seeing my wife open slowly. There is passion surfacing. I am leading spiritually and socially. I am opening into awareness too.”

Annette C

“My 18 yr old son is showing an interest… we are listening to Way of the Superior Man CDs in the car when his younger sister isn’t around. He’s catching on very fast! Am I lucky or what?

I’m practicing feeling into people’s hearts – my kids are great and they instantly relax and usually smile, even though they don’t know what I’m doing.

And, I told him (her boyfriend) that I had started experiencing orgasms during mediation, and that it happened most of the day now. He doesn’t meditate, but asked if he “would still be needed if I was getting “it” all day long…“ I told him he “still had a big job to do.

It’s the ideas of “balanced essence” and “ravisher + ravishee” that really settled into my heart. I am not a “buddy”, I’m not balanced sexually, nor do I want to be. I want to be me; in all my thunder and sweetness.

My greatest gift to the world is my energy and devotion! My greatest gifts to a romantic relationship are my body, my energy, and my devotion.

Just want to express deep appreciation for seeing the real me. You have given me a lifeline of reality to hold on too during this amazing transition. I never would have believed anyone could appreciate my energy (especially a man!), but you do & it’s set me free! And, now I want that from my partner… what a concept!”

Kerry P

“The act of reaching out to you and connecting with your trustable energy manifested a release of awareness and healing. Thanks for being you.”

Tania R

“Dear Michael:

Thank-you so much for listening to me, I felt really heard by you

Your coaching gave me an awakening and I thank-you for that gift. I can't really think of the words right now to express how grateful I am for what happened today but know that I feel in my core that it has changed my life. I trust you enough to allow you to know when to push and when not to.

With you, the way I feel is that not only is your love for me boundless, but it is all encompassing, because it is bigger than you and me. It is eternal and for all beings, and that is the kind of love that is God Love. You, me, all beings, God, everything. And little things like being late, or not wearing what the person thinks you should wear, that stuff doesn't even come into play. It's about loving no matter what.

This is what I get from you. You are teaching me how to open to love by your acceptance of me and my need to feel loved completely. I see now how this is on a different scale than romantic love and yes there's suffering there because it isn't all encompassing, it comes with conditions.

Anyway, thank-you, and I am grateful to the Universe and to God that you are my coach. The key, or what I'm learning here in the coaching is to be able to discern if a man I'm considering taking in is conscious or not because I no longer want to have a part of a man who is not conscious. So, I feel like I'm learning many things here including discernment.

I learned a lot of valuable lessons and it brought me closer to God because in the process of asking why do I keep choosing unconscious boys instead of men who are present, I found you and your coaching which is showing me the way to real love with a relationship that serves all beings not just me or him or us but all.

Thank-you, it's getting easier. :)

Thank-you again. Your masculine essence is a strong, firm, solid rock for my feminine essence to flow and crash against.”

Patricia B

“David Deida and Way of the Superior Man......I feel like what I am learning is... how important it is to keep your heart open to the world and the people around you. Especially your/my man. To feel his open heart and to receive his open love. Our "job" as a couple is to share with the world our amazing love. To be an example of an open loving heart. To flow the love everywhere. It sounds simplistic...what I am learning is that it is profound.”

Jeanette K

“Thank you Michael, feels good to connect with you

Thank you for being here. The homework helped me a lot to have a clear vision of my journey. Thank you for being with me in this journey of opening and practicing to honor the masculine as I offer my feminine more and more it is very welcomed.”